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For every reason NOT to.  Sunday, April 04, 2010   Its really quite simple. A wrong cannot be righted with another wrong. Why? Because although it may right the original wrong, it may leave a by-product of wrong which will require right-ing as well. Then again, its all really individual perception on whether a wrong is really a wrong. What one may see as an ultimate hypocrisy may only be an ultimate truth to another. Or vice versa. Yesterday, I had an issue with bullies. Today, I still do. I do not quite like bullies. Especially those who pretend to be the nicest of wolves wearing branded, hand stitched sheep coats. I accept that its human to make mistakes. Sadly, to keep repeating the mistakes no longer makes that hypocrite an idiot. It makes that hypocrite a very cruel idiot. One thats begging for the fates for karma-ic retribution. Wow, so thats one very serious paragraph. Whats the kicker that got me writing this piece? I happen to be personally acquainted with such a hypocrite. One whose presence is blissfully forgotten about. And then it comes to my notice that she's trying to extricate herself from all that has happened to her by saying that no one understands anothers challenges and that not one person in the world gets what another is going through. I agree absolutely that even the closest of friends will probably never understand individual challenges and that chances are others will never get what one is going through even when they go through the exact same thing. Its like perception. Different people will see each experience differently, will react differently and hence, have a different understanding of it. In my book darling, that will always be the case BUT it does not mean you go out of your way to ruin it for others just because its been ruined for you. It does not mean that just because it did not go the way you wanted it, it should not go the way others need it to. Its NOT about understanding what the other persons challenges or troubles are, but about being there and lending a shoulder of support when needed. Not about a well manicured, shiny red fingernail between the shoulder blades. Like friggin' as if she ever understood what others around her were going through when she was busy stepping on their heads just to get where she thinks she SHOULD be. I'm pretty sure she must have tried to feel their pain when she was busy setting fires on all the friendships around her. She's bullying her way through life. She knows what she wants, how she wants it, where she wants and what time she should get it. Nothing wrong with that until she started rearranging and manipulating the lives of others to get it. Thats wrong. Strike One. Did she realize where she was wrong? No. Did she ever apologize? No. Did she ever appreciate the efforts others made to forgive and forget just to keep friendship with her alive? No. Strike Two. Now thats all of rome has crashed around her ears, she's blaming innocent people around her for all the pain that she's going through. Might as well blame the world for existing without her permission. By all that finger pointing at others, all I see is a desperate attempt at a gone glory by bullying the emotions of others. Enough, already. God, forgive me.. thats Strike Three. Trying to be one of those that gives everyone an additional chance where none should be given, this time I have every reason NOT to. Not anymore. || MizJinX's thoughts || <6:52:00 PM> 0 comments